This weeks word over at with.in is
Romance
Who doesn’t like the romantic movies where boy gets girl, and everything seems happy in the world?
My personal favorite is Pride and Prejudice.
I could watch that movie every.single.day.
I’ve been putting a lot of thought onto this word, and what it means to me this last week.
you know…being Valentine’s Day and all.
Here is what Wiki says about Romance:
Romance is the pleasurable feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one’s love, or one’s deep emotional desires to connect with another person.
Historically, the term “romance” originates with the medieval ideal of chivalry
To me, romance is more than just a kiss, or a feeling, or desire.
It’s being able to KNOW that they love you.
I have been married to my husband for 9 1/2 years now.
He STILL opens the door for me. Not just the door to a building, but to the car. He let’s me into the car, and he gets me out of the car.
Some friends saw him help me out of the car and asked: “Does he always do that for you? Or is he just trying to impress us?”
No, he always does. Even if no one is watching.
That’s romance to me.
Grabbing my hand in the middle of a crowd so I don’t get lost.
Wrapping his arms around me when I’m doing dishes. Just to tell me how much he appreciates me.
Filling up my water bottle in the morning when he leaves for work, so I can have cold water.
Seeing the look on his face, as I look myself over in the mirror for the hundredth time to make sure I look ok. The look always says “you’re beautiful.”
Driving me places, even though I know he would rather be doing something else.
Setting up back rubs for me when he knows I’ve had a particularly long day.
Putting his hand against the small of my back to let me know that he.is.always.there.
encouraging me to grasp hold of my dreams, and to not let go.
Calling me on EVERY.SINGLE.BREAK he has at work, just to tell me he loves me.
I’ve given him a run for his money.
I really have.
And yet, he has stuck by me.
Through E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G.
That’s Romance to me.
Loving someone so much, that all the little things are important.
I love capturing these little moments in my photography. Engagement Sessions and Weddings are my ABSOLUTE favorite things to photograph. Capturing the little things that speak Romance. Yes, this includes the kisses, the hugs, the looks, the touches. The little things.
What’s YOUR interpretation of Romance?
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